DEAR MISS MANNERS: I steadily host visitors in a single day, and I’ve spotted that the bathroom within the visitor rest room is frequently simplest partly flushed. I do know the reason for that is my eco-friendly rest room, which calls for an extended flush occasionally.
How can I notify visitors of how one can function my rest room with out embarrassing them?
GENTLE READER: what would in reality embarrass visitors?
Being not able to flush the bathroom effectively.
Omit Manners considers it to be a elementary accountability of a number to warn visitors of the sort of traps. If you can not say the phrase “rest room” with out blushing, depart a small check in the toilet.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: After the tragedy in Uvalde, the executive of police started his commentary with the greeting, “Just right afternoon.”
The next day to come, after an understandably sleepless evening, I arrived at my process — at a college — full of grief, simplest to learn “Just right morning!” by way of 5 other colleagues.
All of those greetings gave the impression insensitive taking into consideration the cases. Are those excellent manners? Is that this a suitable greeting below the cases?
GENTLE READER: Do you believe, even for one 2d, that the police or your colleagues have been taking part in the day and wishing that you’d, too?
Omit Manners will have to now not have to show that this can be a standard greeting, to not be taken actually. Have you ever by no means stated “Just right evening” on a stormy night?
After all your emotions are uncooked at the sort of time. So are everybody else’s. Please don’t exacerbate the location by way of vilifying folks for turning in an automated courtesy without a aim of sick will.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I don’t understand how to check with my husband who passed on to the great beyond. He isn’t my “ex,” nor my “former” husband. If anyone asks, I will be able to say he passed on to the great beyond, however I don’t understand how to check with him in informal dialog. Is there a right kind means?
GENTLE READER: “My past due husband.”
Omit Manners hopes that the conventions have now not succumbed to literal interpretation to the purpose the place folks will ask you why he does now not display up on time.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m a mature gentleman who has been maintaining corporate for roughly two years with a wonderful woman reasonably my junior.
We appear well-suited and percentage many pursuits and actions. We revel in energetic dialog, tune, dancing, the theater and are intellectually and financially well-matched. Now we have met every different’s households and the ones conferences have long gone nicely.
Now the problem: Amongst different considerate and loving presents, she gave me now not one, however 4 of Omit Manners’ revealed works. I’ve, after all, learn them completely and gleaned one of the finer issues of etiquette.
Is there a hidden that means on this present? Will have to I infer that she unearths my manners missing? May it’s that my environment just one fork, one spoon and one knife for our casual circle of relatives dinners is horribly offensive to her? May it’s one thing extra egregious? Please lend a hand!
GENTLE READER: Undoubtedly. The hidden that means is that you’re a gentleman and that you’ve a humorousness.
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